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Welcome to my "Real" Cole World!

Formerly known as "Keep Your Whack A$$ foreplay."

Yes that was the original name, click here to find out why, lol. This is a nifty blog for you to read, to laugh, to learn about me (and learn about yourself) We're all trying to figure out this thing called "Life."

I've come to learn that my experiences are not my own and that many people share in my same experiences.

Read on to find out about Dating after 30, Fitness,

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Intuition.

A woman’s intuition. According to Google - Women are said to posses a superior intuition (women's intuition), an almost psychic — and...

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Sep 30, 20216 min read

Pull the Fu(k!ng Trigger.

How to Fire A Gun. (Asking a woman on a date) Firing a gun is a good skill to learn (I mean, how do you expect to get to know her or...

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May 26, 20205 min read

Peaceful.

Who is this N**** This man is handsome. Beautiful brown skin Seductive eyes Clean cut Lips made for kissing Nice height. Possibly Fit?...

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May 18, 202013 min read

The beauty of it all...

I closed a chapter, I did. I was content with it ending. I realized through it, that it was coming to an end. I know many times in...

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Jan 20, 20206 min read

Into the Gray.

This is about a short lived summer romance... and a sermon that seemed to be the closing chapter of this relationship. They say God...

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Nov 2, 201914 min read

Hey, I'm in town...

Well well well Cole-Worldly folks. I know its been a minute. I've been giving my brain some rest! I have tons of pending blog posts, just...

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Jul 22, 20198 min read

The Great Date Mystery (Games People Play)

So I’m sure you guys have heard about or seen the new show airing on BET called "Games People Play" I saw the previews when I was...

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May 12, 201916 min read

To all the Woman Crushes out there...

Hey there all you Cole Worldly folks, I sat down with Author/Speaker/Researcher, his name is Ikechi Ojore. Affectionately called "Ike" by...

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May 8, 201913 min read

Recipe for disaster (The last Supper)

He wakes me, to say, I need to get back to the venue to head to the next city. We get dressed, Head to the parking garage where my car...

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Apr 23, 201912 min read

Recipes for disaster (First Recipe)

Ever heard this term before?? This term usually comes before one sees that there is a huge potential for a bunch of fuck ups. A total...

Crys_j_cole

Apr 22, 201922 min read

I'm a Cycologist. (Oh, So you teach spin? lol)

So, Crystal you teach Indoor cycling??? Yep, also known as Spin/Spinning/Indoor cycling. Cycling has ranked among the top fitness trends...

Crys_j_cole

Apr 16, 20193 min read

And there He was... (or was he???)

I was Vulnerable. I put myself out there. (The way I wanted to) I was operating slightly from a place of fear. But, I was open and...

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Apr 4, 20197 min read

Relation-situation-ship-$h!t.

Some of you Mother Fu(ker$, Kill me. Like Literally, and you wont like this post. If you don't like it, re-read it, and then share it...

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Mar 20, 20196 min read

One night stand (Part 3, "The" final chapter)

So, we settle into our natural rhythms at home. In typical "girl" fashion, as much as I wanted to not be all "giddy" about the shit, I...

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Mar 16, 201916 min read

One Night Stand (Part 2)

This is how one of the best days of my life that turned into mush started. lol. When I write, I try not to share to much around "time"...

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Mar 8, 201915 min read

One Night Stand - Part 1 (of 3)

This is a series of events that are True. I decided to share this story, and maybe not in the most detailed way, but to tap into the mind...

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Mar 4, 20198 min read

Artists Feature Friday's

So, I'm sure you guys know I love good Music, So I decided to start an Artists Feature Friday. I will try NOT to be biased but more than...

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Mar 1, 20192 min read

Passive Agressive versus “Not wanting to curse your A$$ out.”

Dictionary result for passive-aggressive: adjective of or denoting a type of behavior or personality characterized by indirect resistance...

Crys_j_cole

Feb 25, 20193 min read

Artists Feature Friday's

So, I'm sure you guys know I love good Music, So I decided to start an Artists Feature Friday. I will try NOT to be biased but more than...

Crys_j_cole

Feb 22, 20192 min read

The Confident A$$ho!e.

It hit me like a ton of bricks. As I'm riding to work listening to the hum of my car, and the two Yeti's clank together in the cup...

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Feb 20, 20195 min read